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MarryMe4Life is the vision of Minister’s Tony and Tarenia Carthan who believe that you can not be married to the wrong person, but that you can be married to the wrong ideas about marriage. These relationship mentors have come through TrialsTroubles, and Triumphs.  Their passion for Reaching, Relating, and Rebuilding of relationships for couples who are in the pre-marital or post-marital stages of life have led them to become Certified Laugh Your Way To a Better Marriage Presenters under Pastor Mark Gungor.

Uniting today’s contemporary methods for  marriage with yesterday’s traditional values, Tony and Tarenia have found a niche that helps couples in every walk of life. Their vision is to empower couples to live in and on purpose in marriage through fun, practical, and manageable nuggets of teaching and advisement.  Marriage can be exciting even in the day-to-day routines.  Through Tony and Tarenia’s teaching, couples can find moments to cherish and opportunities to create moments that will keep them falling in love with each other.

Join MM4Life as Tony and Tarenia encourage your relationship through couple gatherings, fun date-nights, im-pactful seminars, and couples advisement.  MM4life is committed to ensuring couples have the resources and the people they need during moments of trying times. Through building relationships those same encouragers are there to celebrate mile-stones and victories that life will bring. It is important to keep your marriage fresh and surround your self with other’s who are committed to helping you create and maintain a healthy marriage. With the team of  “T n T” you are sure to get explosive and dynamic results to take your relationship to the place God desires for you to live, in the land of Peace, Purpose, and Prosperity. Contact them at (404)275-0440 or by email at info@mm4life.com

About Tony

Tony Carthan wears many hats and suits to match. He is a native of  Decatur, Georgia, an ordained minster and deacon.  But to put the icing on the cake his most coveted title is father of 4 girls and a caring husband.  He proudly served his country during his tenure in the United States Navy, as an Operations Specialist. During that time he found his career of choice in the IT field. His education and experience has led him to be a successful entrepreneur in the field of Technology. Although technology has afforded Tony many benefits, his calling is to see marriages flourish and succeed.

While being his own boss causes him to make serious decisions, Tony is far from the mundane businessman.  His fun loving nature and humor have become his trademark in working well with others from all walks of life. He is all about empowering other’s and thrives on encouraging people to pursue their goals and walk into their God given destiny. He advocates for men making lasting relationships and believes the golf course can be one of the best places for this to happen. When he is not putting for birdie (or double par), Tony can be seen serving at the local church, leading focus panel discussions at small group bible study, helping to chair his county party, or speaking with couples about marriage and covenant commitment. He is currently co-authoring a book with his wife Tarenia; entitled, Marriage-It’s Worth It!! Your 30 Day Accountability Partner to Relate, ReEnergize, & Rebuild Your Marriage. The book will allow couples to strip off their ideologies, rebuild from hurts & disappointments, forgive themselves & their spouse while using Scripture and daily confessions to accomplish their relationship goals.

Tony is definitely a man of many talents, but non out weigh his love for God, family, faith, and fun. Connect with Tony at,  , or facebook.com/Marryme4life, and https://www.instagram.com/marryme4life/.

About Tarenia

Tarenia Carthan is a minister and native of Atlanta, Georgia. She is also the mother of 4 beautiful girls and a family and marriage advocate within her community and state. Tarenia is an Alumnus of Atlanta Christian College (Point University), with a BS in Counseling and is currently pursuing her Masters.IMG_4504

Tarenia along with her husband of 22 years, Tony, are the owners of MarryMe4Life, a marriage lifestyle ministry which coaches and advises premarital and post-marital couples. MM4Life encourages couples through fun and exciting ways to renew their friendship and live in love despite obstacles that come in marriage. Keeping in line with her passion for marriage and family, Tarenia is also co-founder of Angels N Technolnogy, www.angelsntech.com. A STEM mentoring company for parents and girls ages 11-18.

Tarenia and Tony are in the final stages of  their book It’s Worth It!! Your 30 Day Accountability Partner to Relate, ReEnergize, & Rebuild Your Marriage. The book will allow couples to strip off their ideologies, rebuild from hurts & disappointments, forgive themselves & their spouse while using Scripture and daily confessions to accomplish their relationship goals.

When possible, Tarenia enjoys being involved in her local government; being an active member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.; volunteering with Meals on Wheels; mentoring girls; and speaking engagements to share her story and encourage other wives and mothers. Follow Tony & Tarenia on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram as they give inspiration to couples through quotes and anecdotes; , or facebook.com/Marryme4life, https://www.instagram.com/marryme4life/.

“We are taught many subjects in life such as history, math, science, and reading, but no one teaches us about being in relationship and it is time we major in this matter. Why? Because it is the most important building block of our existence and determines the destiny of legacies we leave behind for the next generation.”…. (and excerpt from the book, It’s Worth It)…….MM4Life

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Tarenia and Tony are trained and certified video presenters for Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage and utilize other great tools to educate, inspire and get couples to understand they can have a great marriage. Traveling to various churches, Tony and Tarenia engage married and single audiences to challenge their thinking about dating and marriage.

A great enrichment tool that Tony & Tarenia were privileged to be a part of is the Ebook Stay Connected: 18 Meditations To Help You Build a Marriage That Works.  A free download of the book can be found here: http://mrgwrks.us/eBooks/NMW.php

Tony and Tarenia also do couples coaching along with pre-marital/post-marital advisement. To reach them about couples sessions, speaking engagements or a Conference for your local organization email, Info@mm4life.com or call 404-275-0440.